Rodney Collin

When true self-remembering comes, one does not want to alter oneself; 

one somehow rises above their weaknesses and one's own. 

There can be no blame anywhere. 

One swallows what is, and becomes free.

Rainer Maria Rilke

... I would like to beg you dear Sir, as well as I can,  to have patience with everything unresolved  in your heart and to try to love the questions  themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language.  Don't search for the answers, which could not be  given to you now, because you would not be able  to live them. And the point is to live everything.  Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday  far in the future, you will gradually,  without even noticing it, live your way  into the answer. --from Letters to a Young Poet (1903)